The journey of parenting a child with autism is profoundly unique, shaped by the individual challenges and triumphs each child and family encounter. Within the autism community, the spectrum of experiences can vary widely, especially between parents of children with severe autism and those whose children were previously categorized under terms like Asperger’s syndrome, now sometimes referred to as “high-functioning” autism. These differences can sometimes lead to a gap in understanding and empathy among parents, as well as between individuals on the spectrum and the broader community.
The Struggle for Empathy and Understanding
Parents of children with severe autism face daily challenges that can be incomprehensible to others. Their lives may revolve around non-verbal communication, managing sensory sensitivities, and the constant worry about their child’s health and well-being. The simple act of discerning whether their child is in pain can become a complex puzzle. On the other side, parents of children who are considered high-functioning often grapple with guilt and frustration. They navigate their child’s struggles in social situations, academic pressures, and the quest for independence, all the while being acutely aware of the more intense challenges faced by others on the spectrum. They also struggle dealing with doctors that misunderstand the differences in response by their child. The expectations of society wanting the student to fit into a…
