In the intricate tapestry of existence, where each thread represents our thoughts, feelings, and choices, we hold the power to weave the masterpiece of our lives. This empowering realization starts with a simple, yet profound affirmation: “I am in control of my thoughts, feelings, and choices.” It serves as a beacon, guiding us through the fog of doubt and uncertainty, towards a horizon where we acknowledge ourselves as the architects of our reality.
I remember years ago while in college studying Computational Mathematics, working to debug a program in the computer lab. Two boys from my class were working on the same problem. As we worked diligently all night we would stop and compare our results. Our professor had a ‘hands in your pockets rule’, students could discuss programs, homework and results but keep your hands in your pockets. You should be able to recite back the code verbatim if your code matched any other student.
Comparing our results it was found that the two boys code matched whereas mine differed. I spent hours trying to find anything wrong with no results. The next day I showed up at the professor’s door to ask what was wrong with my code…. Dr Atkins proceeded to ask why I was sure my code was incorrect and that I should trust myself. In the end I found that my code was providing the correct result. I had spent hours trying to match incorrect code.
